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Our second antenatal class

4 comments, 186 views, posted 10:15 pm 20/09/2011 in Journals by marksyzm
marksyzm has 8343 posts, 681 threads, 943 points, location: Oxford, United Kingdom
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We really enjoy going to these classes - we're definitely learning many things going to these, even despite Sara being a nurse.

It makes me eager to start Googling things that have suddenly started many ideas and situations in my head such as me having to deliver the baby (shit, shit, shit, shit, shit) or details like induction etc etc.

Overall the experience in these classes just makes me feel happier in the faster and more lucid realisation that I am to become a father.

What were your experiences with pregnancy and being there?

Extra Points Given by:

griffin (5), elsels (25), Vormid (25), evolution (5)

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10:53 pm 20/09/2011

griffin

Didn't do any courses. Read the book.
We were going to the gynecologist once a week by the last month, and he was keeping us up to date on everything we could expect.

I wouldn't focus too much on the birth itself, your part will be easy, and you will have doctors and nurses telling you what to do. Sara's part will be a real bitch. I hope you've bought her something nice that you can present her with in the hospital after it's all over, and she's feeling tired and drained.

It's afterwards that things get freaky. Here again, doctors and nurses will help you along. From how to hold your baby, to how often you can expect to feed her, and how little you can expect to sleep at night (not fucking much).

Word of advice: the first chance you get after the birth, go have a few beers. It will be the last time for quite a while, so call a few friends. Next morning, go back to the hospital, and forget all about bars and weekends and fun. That shit is now for other people, not you (at least for a while).

Don't forget to take videos, pictures etc. Sara can't, she's going to be busy.

Important: try to sleep when the baby sleeps. This may be difficult at first, but when you've had eight hours of sleep over four days, it will get easier, I promise you.

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10:55 pm 20/09/2011

Vormid

Sleep deprivation took anything I learned away from me. I vaguely remember seeing things that could not be unseen and crying at the sight of my daughters.

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1:31 am 21/09/2011

Flee

This is all I can think of now...

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5:19 am 21/09/2011

z0phi3l

My youngest is 14, I'm still catching up on lost sleep for the 17yo, sleep doesn't exist once you become a Father.

The rest will be trial and error once you get the basics down

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